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  • Deal Breakers

  • When to Work on a Relationship and When to Walk Away
  • By: Dr. Bethany Marshall
  • Narrated by: Renée Raudman
  • Length: 5 hrs and 16 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (20 ratings)
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This is a book about men. Not all men, just emotionally unhealthy men. The ones who make you ask, "Is it him or is it me? Am I making too big a deal out of this? I try to tell him how I feel, but he says I'm overreacting or needy or it's all my fault". Relationships are hard work, but how hard should they be? When do you know you are struggling too hard to make a relationship succeed?

Deal Breakers is about getting out of this "relationship purgatory": where the present is unfulfilling and the future is the only thing you can hope for. But there is no magic future. If he won't work on problems today, it's unlikely they'll ever be resolved. And passively hoping for change will only cost you years of depression or expensive therapy.

Dr. Bethany Marshall is here to remind women that relationships, like business relationships, are deals. In the business world, a deal breaker is the one non-negotiable term that, if not agreed to, means the deal is off. But in the world of relationships, identifying your deal breaker can be much more promising, as it holds out the possibility of helping you to understand where the relationship has gone wrong, what needs to be done in order to make it better, and when to walk away because you're doing more work than him to fix it.
©2007 Dr. Bethany Marshall (P)2007 Tantor Media Inc.
Psychology Love, Dating & Attraction
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Really helpful

Feeling very stuck right now and this books really helped me find some clarity and given me some guidelines to work with. Would love to meet the therapist who wrote this!
A great read x

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Disturbing. But good.

I found this one good, but it disturbed me to the point I found it upsetting to read which is why i give only 4 stars. It makes you feel like "oh my god...it's a deal breaker then...Oh no..i've got to finish it then.."..good info to know, but maybe you could end up diagnosing your BF into a catergory a little harshley if you are going through a bad patch and he displays certain negative attributes, you could nail his coffin well and truley shut with this no nonsense book so approach with caution.

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A great read!

I recommend listening to it all, to completely understand it. A lot of it won't apply and will just go over your head then suddenly one "deal-breaker" will resonate with you, in my case it did!

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