Are you fighting about how often you are (or are not) having sex?
Does one of you avoid having sex? Is sex used to have power over the other in your relationship?
Here is your "how to" guide for couples who need to communicate and negotiate about sex urge differences between partners. Dr Janet Hall, Clinical Psychologist and Sex Therapist, has designed this audio for couples who are having clashes over their quality or quantity of sex life. Sometimes a partner complains about not getting good sex, and frequently a partner complains about not getting much or any sex at all! You will learn:
The truth about desire and arousal
How to have confidence in asking for what you want
Communication skills which work for your sex life
Dr Janet Hall warns against the things NOT to do, like having big fights or affairs, as they are almost certain to sabotage the future of your relationship. She describes communication strategies with the emphasis on making agreements and plans and understanding when, where and how it's best for couples to talk. You'll also learn strategies for initiating and refusing sex that will help you defuse any upsets.
Dr Janet Hall also discusses creating sexual agreements in her book Sex Life Solutions. You may also benefit from listening to her audio recordings on using Seductive Sexual Fantasies to keep the sexual fires burning.
So, if you're serious about wanting to spark up your sex life then you need to get a copy of Solving Sex-drive Conflicts right now!
This is one of a series of audios on sexual topics presented by Dr Janet Hall called:Dr Janet Hall's Sensational Sex Series. Dr Janet Hall is a Clinical Psychologist, Hypnotherapist, Author, Speaker and Media Consultant. She has authored eight books on family and relationships and recorded over 50 audio-recordings, many of them including hypnotic material.
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