Mistakes Were Made (But Not By Me)

  • by Carol Tavris, Elliot Aronson
  • Narrated by Marsha Mercant, Joe Barrett
  • 9 hrs and 4 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook

Publisher's Summary

Why do people dodge responsibility when things fall apart? Why the parade of public figures unable to own up when they screw up? Why the endless marital quarrels over who is right? Why can we see hypocrisy in others but not in ourselves? Are we all liars? Or do we really believe the stories we tell? Backed by years of research and delivered in lively, energetic prose, Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) offers a fascinating explanation of self-deception - how it works, the harm it can cause, and how we can overcome it.


What the Critics Say

"Thanks, in part, to the scientific evidence it provides and the charm of its down-to-earth, commonsensical tone, Mistakes Were Made is convincing. Reading it, we recognize the behavior of our leaders, our loved ones, and—if we're honest—ourselves, and some of the more perplexing mysteries of human nature begin to seem a little clearer." (Francine Prose, O, The Oprah Magazine)
"By turns entertaining, illuminating and—when you recognize yourself in the stories it tells—mortifying." (The Wall Street Journal)


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Customer Reviews

Most Helpful

A life changing book, everyone should read it

I heard a recommendation of this by Alexi Sayle on British radio and was intrigued. It was a revelation, and has been a huge help in coming to terms with my own faults and mistakes, both at work and at home. I am now willing to accept criticism where I know I am wrong and more aware of my self justifying behaviour.
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- Matthew L

essential reading for humans

In here somewhere is accountability and forgiveness occupying the same space. Informative and enlightening by any standard.
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- Eoin

Book Details

  • Release Date: 17-08-2010
  • Publisher: Audible Studios