Summary

A bold, original, moving book that will inspire fanatical devotion and ignite debate.
"Whom to marry, and when will it happen - these two questions define every woman's existence." So begins Spinster, a revelatory and slyly erudite look at the pleasures and possibilities of remaining single. Using her own experiences as a starting point, journalist and cultural critic Kate Bolick invites us into her carefully considered, passionately lived life, weaving together the past and present to examine why she - along with over 100 million American women, whose ranks keep growing - remains unmarried.
This unprecedented demographic shift, Bolick explains, is the logical outcome of hundreds of years of change that has neither been fully understood, nor appreciated. Spinster introduces a cast of pioneering women from the last century whose genius, tenacity, and flair for drama have emboldened Bolick to fashion her life on her own terms: columnist Neith Boyce, essayist Maeve Brennan, social visionary Charlotte Perkins Gilman, poet Edna St. Vincent Millay, and novelist Edith Wharton. By animating their unconventional ideas and choices, Bolick shows us that contemporary debates about settling down, and having it all, are timeless - the crucible upon which all thoughtful women have tried for centuries to forge a good life.
Intellectually substantial and deeply personal, Spinster is both an unreservedly inquisitive memoir and a broader cultural exploration that asks us to acknowledge the opportunities within ourselves to live authentically. Bolick offers us a way back into our own lives - a chance to see those splendid years when we were young and unencumbered, or middle-aged and finally left to our own devices, for what they really are: unbounded and our own to savor.
©2015 Kate Bolick (P)2015 Random House Audio
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Critic reviews

"Kate Bolick brings a bracing feminist consciousness to bear on the lives of five unconventional women of the past and on her own young life in the 21st century. She writes about the dilemmas of love and work - then and now - with rare perspicacity and poignancy." (Janet Malcolm, author of The Journalist and the Murderer)
" Spinster is a triumph, a provocative and moving exploration of what it means for a woman to chart her own course." (Malcolm Gladwell, author of David and Goliath)
"Kate Bolick's Spinster will take your breath away. Writing with a bold vision and in incandescent prose, Bolick gives us a user's guide to going solo - and a gorgeous work of cultural criticism." (Susan Cain, co-founder of Quiet Revolution and best-selling author of Quiet)
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5 out of 5 stars
By Gudrun on 29-07-15

Exceptional!

A truly exceptional piece of literature. This is not a "how-to" on single life, as you might think - but so much more than that. It's about the true need to be alone - yet forever yearning, and having, deep connections with other human beings, sexual or not. It's about wanting something else than you are expected to want, and it is about finding "your people". Thank you, Kate Bolick. I have found my people.

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4 out of 5 stars
By catherine longbotham on 05-06-15

Bravo! A refreshing take on "Singledom"

Spinster, Old Maid, Single...Katie Bolick's in depth memoir is a giant step toward taking the sting out of society's perception of the single girl.

Bolick spins the tale of her path to blissful spinsterdom through her personal experience of discovering her five awakeners of the literary world. These influential women who act as both personal and professional role models and shape Bolick's point of view on making a life of ones own.

"Spinster" offers a refreshing take what it means to be single. Honest, even witty at times, and most importantly, completely devoid of self-pity.

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