The Man Who Lied to his Laptop

  • by Clifford Nass, Corina Yen
  • Narrated by Sean Pratt
  • 7 hrs and 46 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook

Publisher's Summary

Startling insights into persuasion, trust, empathy, and teamwork, based on how we treat our computers....
The driver was insistent: “A woman should not be giving directions.” Despite the customer-service rep’s reassurance that the navigation system in his car wasn’t actually a woman - just a computer with a female voice - the driver (and many others like him) refused to listen. There was only one person for BMW to call for help: Clifford Nass, one of the world’s leading experts on how people interact with technology.
After two decades of studying problems like BMW’s GPS system, Microsoft’s Clippy (the most hated animated character of all time), and online evaluations that led people to lie to their laptops, Nass has developed a powerful theory: Our brains can’t fundamentally distinguish between interacting with people and interacting with devices. We will “protect” a computer’s feelings, feel flattered by a brown-nosing piece of software, and even do favors for technology that has been “nice” to us. All without even realizing it.
Nass has found that the most powerful strategies for working with people can be learned from watching what succeeds and fails in technology interfaces. If a computer can make friends, build teams, and calm powerful emotions, so can any of us.
Nass’s studies reveal:

Mixing criticism with praise - a popular tactic for managers - is a destructive method of evaluation.
Opposites don’t attract - except when one gradually changes to become more like the other.
Flattery works - even when the recipient knows it’s flattery.
Team-building exercises don’t build teams - but the right T-shirt can.
Misery loves company - but only if the company is miserable, too.
Nass’s discoveries push the boundaries of both psychology and technology and provide nothing less than a new blueprint for successful human relationships.


What the Critics Say

"With the help of real experiments, rather than anecdotes or impressions, Clifford Nass uses people's interactions with computers as a window into social and professional life. The book is filled with insights about an increasingly important part of our lives." (Steven Pinker, Harvard College Professor of Psychology, Harvard University)


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Computer programmers have a reputation for being dull and boring and if this book is anything to go by it's well deserved. The reader sounds like he's struggling to pay attention at some points. I feel sorry for him, I could turn it off.
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- Rick

Book Details

  • Release Date: 16-09-2010
  • Publisher: Gildan Media, LLC